Rocky Mountain PBS journalist shares her story of addiction and recovery

I was molested at the age of 5 by the teenage son of a caregiver. From that issue, element of my emotional advancement stopped, and a void opened up in my coronary heart. I spent most of my everyday living attempting to fill that house by trying to reach some type of perfectionism, which for quite a few decades manifested into having issues. Then I learned opiate agony killers soon after they ended up recommended put up-surgery for a labral tear in my correct hip.  From the 1st time I took them, my initial considered was ‘THIS is what I have been ready for my overall life.’ It was best. I observed perfection in a experience. 

Opiates gave me euphoria and vitality. They assisted me maintain up with my daily life. I could do it all be the fantastic mom, the great spouse, the excellent cook dinner with a best home. But it was dreadful because immediately after a couple months they stopped working and I had to consider much more and extra just to really feel normal.

Dana Knowles pictured with her husband and three little ones. 

Sooner or later, an even worse cycle started. To stay clear of the awful withdrawal signs and symptoms from opiates (cold/scorching sweats, nausea, flu signs and symptoms, entire body aches, sleeplessness, paranoia, stomach discomfort, diarrhea, and leg cramping), I would drink liquor. It didn’t get me lengthy to figure out that alcohol could numb all of those signs and symptoms. If my young ones didn’t have any where to be following 5 p.m. I would get started consuming in the evenings when I ran out of opiates. That pendulum cycle went again and forth for nearly a calendar year. I’d be equipped to end all substances for a couple of times, but the withdrawal from opiates would get so bad that I’d start out drinking yet again. 

Immediately after a few months in treatment, I discovered how to cope with my trauma and process the matters that set off me. But I knew that I experienced to discover a way to maintain my sobriety and live my lifestyle. I found out that there is no a person way to get better from habit. There are several options. I observed mine in a practice called transcendental meditation. It is my key kind of self-care. It permits me to release stress and decompress my anxious system everyday so that I can adapt to the needs and adjustments of lifestyle. 

I also no for a longer time use the words and phrases ‘self-improvement’ instead I use the term ‘evolution.’ ‘Improvement’ implies that this is all a linear course of action and it’s not. It took me three occasions in rehab to finally “get” how to do sobriety. What I figured out is that it has nothing to do with being sober. It has to do with receiving my mind proper so that I no for a longer time want the prescription drugs and liquor to cope with lifestyle.

Now I put myself first, even before my three young ones due to the fact if I’m not healthy, I simply cannot choose treatment of them. Now I giggle louder. I appreciate more durable. I listen improved. I rest far more. I no longer consider to have it all, do it all or be it all. I’m just me and whether or not it’s far too substantially or not plenty of for individuals is on them. 

Considering that I got out of cure in 2016, I’ve had 20 buddies die of overdoses immediately after relapsing and two die by suicide. I generally question, “Why not me?” Part of the purpose I’m not anonymous any longer is mainly because of them. I want my close friends who’ve handed to know — where ever they are — that I discuss up for them. For me, their deaths are not in vain. I know they tried out. 

Yet another explanation I’m not anonymous anymore is since I want all the introverts, dreamers, sensitives, people with despair, anxiousness, addiction, taking in problems or any other psychological health challenge to listen to me and see me, so that they can hear and see on their own and not be frightened to question for assistance.


Dana Knowles is a multimedia journalist at Rocky Mountain PBS and can be achieved at [email protected].